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pizzaight:

this has gone too far
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cristinaya:

Shine bright like a washed nintendog image

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"I do not trust people who don’t love themselves and yet tell me, ‘I love you.’ There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt."
— Maya Angelou
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freakofliterature replied to your post “there’s a lot of talk amongst feminists about whether letting your…”

I suppose it’s just because of the tradition of a man giving his daughter away… which is disturbing… but it’s more a thing of sentiment now I think even if it is controversial that we have accepted it as a completely acceptable norm

I’m not well versed in the traditions of marriage (I don’t want to be married) so it’s a learning curve for me. in the traditional sense, I can see the disturbing nature of a father giving away his potentially unwilling daughter to man she doesn’t want to marry. that I can see. I think what’s really important here is the nature behind the bride’s wishes to be given away. I don’t belong to any other person, regardless of their status in my life, unless I choose so. if I walk the isle solo, it’s because I’m choosing to give myself. the whole concept of ‘giving away’ to me implies possession and I don’t like that. I’m still very much confused by marriage on the whole.

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there’s a lot of talk amongst feminists about whether letting your father walk you down the isle on your wedding day is sexist or not. I’m not 100% sure how I feel about it purely because I’m conflicted.

I’ve never had a real father. ever.

the last time I saw my father it was my 10th birthday. I learnt from a young age to identify triggers to my anxiety and his physical abuse was a clear trigger. I’ve had other adult men step into my father’s shoes but I rejected each one. I didn’t want a father. I was t e n years old and said no to male role figures. I had my mother and that’s all I ever wanted. suppose that’s why I’ve always been fiercely independent - it’s what I wanted for myself.

if and when I get married, there will be no father to walk me down the isle, and I’m very much pleased about that. I don’t know if I’d want my father to walk me down the isle even if I had one. I mean, it’s totally my choice. I could have other men in my life walk me down but that would make me uncomfortable. at the end of the day I see it like this; if that’s what you want, then go for it. if you’re like me, then go for that. do what makes you happy.

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if u dont eat girls out but you expect head ur a little bitch

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vonmunsterr:

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kanyewesticle:

I’m speechless.

Wow

Changing the default perception of women, one mannequin at a time.

This is disgusting


Ew ew ew ew it looks like it’s trying really hard to suck it’s belly in??
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before you send someone an ugly message perhaps exfoliate your skin, set some life goals and contemplate why you’ve reached this point
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blackfemalepresident:

old ass ppl talk shit about my generation until they accidentally disable their wifi and cant figure out how to turn it back on

then im suddenly the mastermind of information & resources

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